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LOYALTY

This loyalty thing don tire me oh. As in it weakens me to the bones eh, I decided to let us talk bout it. Don't you get tired of hearing the incessant loyalty cries from almost everyone around you like their lives depended on it? Even the ones that will snake on you will still come and preach loyalty...the ones that will smash your bestie behind your back will still sing loyalty.. Hmmmmm,the latest one now is if you advice your friend against something you think is bad, nna you're so disloyal. Then there's the one of being tagged "unloyal hoe" because you're now dating your friend's ex whom you had no idea was with your so called friend before.

The thing is everyone has his/her own notion of what loyalty should look or feel like. Some people with Kardashian mentality would say "don't be friends with or don't date someone I'm not cool with"...wonder whatever happened to freewill and happiness. These days even after your undying friendship, loyalty and sacrifice, you're still considered the exact opposite.

I have sha learnt one thing. Be freaking true to yourself and everyone around you. Do the best you can, be the best version of yourself. If someone later decides that hey, you ain't loyal enough, biko bounce. Ya not jollof inugo? You cannot come and kee yasef. That's not why Jesus died. 

I've said my own. What's your take?

7 comments:

  1. Ya you're right abt wah u said ...buh I feel one shud just do what's right in d friendship

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  2. Loyal is key, but not to be lavished on those without similar values. Provided God's is pleased and you're at peace... Damn the world's pinion.

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  3. Anonymous31/1/16 22:19

    Be freaking true to yourself. Whatever makes you happy makes you king. Thanks dear.

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  4. Be freaking true to yourself. Whatever makes you happy makes you king. Thanks dear.

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  5. Alexis (sparkles)31/1/16 22:21

    Obvious truth is this...No one truly understands loyalty.Even when you try to be the best you can and should be to persons,it just gets thrown back at your face most times.
    My take is...live your life and try not to hurt yourself,you weren't born to please anyone except Baba God....#yeah,damn the world's opinions #

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  6. True that...... If u ain't true to yourself then u can't be true to anyone

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  7. Exactly! Like one should give up true love cos of one of the many past relationships of a friend...I don't gerrit. Say e no work with you no mean say e no go work with me. It's not disloyalty, cos when the chips are down my happiness comes 1st gotta be loyal to myself gan

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