I had this conversation one time with some friends and we shared our experiences. We realized that it was virtually the same result in each case...why? Let's talk.
When people of opposite sex claim to be "besties", I chuckle a bit and be like "ok" because I know sooner or later something more is bound to happen.
If you happen to get into a relationship and your girlfriend's best friend is not a girl too, just get ready to give room for the real owner pretty soon. The same thing if your man's bestie na babe. For all you know, you might just be coming in between true love. The so called best friends never ever admit their true feelings, not until they see the other party is getting pretty serious in the relationship and end up hurting those involved.
The annoying part of this whole thing is that you will notice the signs and still be having hope, just because you have asked a million times and your partner has assured you with all confidence that there is nothing more than friendship between them. They will just keep pretending and playing ten ten ontop your head and when you're at the peak of your feelings, they land you with the bombshell...hi fool!
Seriously eh,left to me alone, your girlfriend/boyfriend, wife/husband should be your best friend....who agrees? If someone wants me and in the course of getting to know each other he introduces me to his bestfriend that is female...OSO!! DEUCES!! I'm not about to get tangled up in some love triangle. Don't use me to discover you love each other..a lab rat to test your feelings. Mba. Thank you..lol
Sigh! Really though, what do you guys think? Is it ok to be all warm and cozy with your supposed bestie that's not your bae? Will you stand for it? Can it just be ordinary friendship with no strings attached? Is it possible? Oya people of God start talking and confessing. Keep it real! Talk with Krystal ;)