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Diminishing Returns


Question of the day...
"You're a girl and you have dated 15 guys with hard labor, use the laws of diminishing returns to calculate the substance that will be left for your husband to enjoy"

I'm laughing and crying at the same time,haha! This is crazy but it honestly makes good for total real talk.

Now,for those of you that don't know, the law of diminishing returns states that in all productive processes,adding more of one factor of production,while holding others constant..will at some point yield lower incrementals per unit. Simply put, diminishing returns refers to the point at which the amount of profit or benefits gained is less than the amount of money or energy invested.

Lol! Ok let's apply this to our case study today. As a lady now,let's assume that when you date the first guy with hard labor, he gets 100% efficiency and substance....if you know what I mean *wink*. Now assume again that for every guy you date, this "substance" decreases by 5%(could be more). So this means that the 15th guy you would have dated would receive like 30% substance abi? Ok imagine your husband is the 20th on your list..he'd naw get only 5% benefits..mogbe!! That's like almost nothing oh. Simply put, you don't have value, he should not even pay your dowry..hahaha!

As true as it may sound, this is not really the case all the time right?  I mean after all even strippers and prostitutes are happily married with husbands that value them more than life. The fact that you haven't even kissed a guy before or you've dated just one or two persons does not guarantee the level of "substance"  your hubby will benefit. Some of you sef may still not settle down after much preservation..sigh.

Notwithstanding, you don't have to be a grasshopper hopping from one man to another in just one lifetime. Pity your pum pum now. After all that labor you put into how many relationships, what again do you want to offer when you get to your final bus stop? Remain something for thy husband naw. You don't have to be around every and any man before you get to Mr.Right.

However, I believe everyone learns from everything and everyone. A girl's experience with a number of men may have made her an even better person worth building a home with...you never know.

Anyways, do you think the number of men a girl dates in one lifetime is indirectly proportional to the amount of substance left for her husband? Guys what do you think? Let's get talking...Talk with Krystal ;)

5 comments:

  1. I think that as in most things, it depends. Some girls get affected by diminishing returns and this wields some influence on their families in the future. However, some girls get all the luck and escape that law. It boils down to the value she has built for herself over the years and the regard in which her husband holds her. Also her husband's attitude towards her past is important because if he doesn't care, then she's blessed indeed.

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  2. I think that as in most things, it depends. Some girls get affected by diminishing returns and this wields some influence on their families in the future. However, some girls get all the luck and escape that law. It boils down to the value she has built for herself over the years and the regard in which her husband holds her. Also her husband's attitude towards her past is important because if he doesn't care, then she's blessed indeed.

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  3. I believe in the word variety and change, as a human we all are, I think we hav the enquiring tendency to learn daily. So the number of men may not be her determining factor. If you differentiate a little of the bad guys she met and integrate more valued interest from the good ones, then shes a valued asset to make a better half.
    Most gals meet various guys and ended some relationship not harshly but felt they may not be compatible.
    To cap it all, seen we tend to evolve daily in learning, the number of gals which may improve their performance may be higher in percentage then the ones who follow the bandwagon and later end it up like "all guys are the same".

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  4. Great insights @afoma and @chinazor. You didn't lie at all. Real talk!!!

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  5. I don't believe in any such law.
    First off why is she dating; is she dating to find the one or dating for dating sake (to fit in/be considered cool)
    Then there is the question of what has she learned about herself, her likes, dislikes, motivators, throughout her dating or no dating life.
    If she's on point, whether she save herself or date 50 men, beta guy to gbadu her well. If she's clowning, her dating history (or lack of one) won't matter she will not be appreciated.

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