Rape is an all too familiar issue yea? Statistics show that 1 out of every 6 women has been a victim of an attempted or completed rape in her lifetime. Its a very sensitive topic to talk about because a lot of controversy often surrounds it as people tend to raise concerns on whether or not the victim is to be blamed for getting raped...or ask if at all she's being truthful.
People usually get focused on why someone gets raped disregarding the fact that the person has suffered a great ordeal and would probably have to live with a stigma.
I have seen cases where a mother blames her daughter for being raped. That one gives me real pain. There have also been other instances where the female victim is blamed because of what she wears; saying it is her responsibility to prevent it. Again blame is still put on a victim that probably went out at night to just chill...and then got drunk. You'd hear questions like " Na who send am?" "Eh na she go drink". Some will still go further to say "she don dey do before naw,no be say she be virgin"
So its ok to rape someone because of how she looks? Its ok to violate her because she's not "so innocent"? Does it mean women can't wear tank tops, bum shorts or short skirts anymore? So someone that goes to the bar and meets someone else gets what she deserves? I have not seen it written anywhere yet that being drunk is a form of consent tho. What ever happened to being mad at the offender or whoever made him that way? Or even blaming any other thing but the victim? Everyone be giving some form of reasons to excuse such wickedness
As much as I personally advice against provocative dressing and being in compromising situations especially with strangers, there is no justification for rape. So what if she wears just short skirts? That's what she wants. Why can't you control the animal in you? And yes she's a bit drunk.. uncle treat her like you would treat your sis and take her home safely. Aunty that is blaming her daughter...please fight for her and support her. Put the beast of a human behind bars!!
Rape has become so common people tend to just wave it aside as "one of those things".. please let's do what is right
Anyways,this is just my opinion. As always I have to ask... Talk your own with Krystal...who should we blame??