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SEX TAPE!

It's the weekend y'all, so we won't be so serious...or would we? So question of the day:
You're a happily married to the woman of your dreams, having a very good life with no hassles. From nowhere, the devil uses one of her "exes" to rain on your parade by making a SEX TAPE he made of the both them go viral just to get back at her for probably breaking his heart. Every single person including your parents and your kids has the video. What would be your reaction? How will you handle the situation? And if you were the woman in question, what will you do?

That's like more than one question already and olodo like me went to say "question" of the day. We know this type of thing is not rare, e dey happen! Bad belle and olofofo everywhere. Why? Because you seem better off and having the best life has to offer. But you know eh, people can be very wicked oh. Like no single atom of happiness in their lives. I don't even get how someone can be so sadistic and want to derive joy from someone else's pain. It's sad that sometimes the things we do in our youth come back to haunt us in the future. Definitely that tape would have been made out of youthful exorbitance and would probably seem like nothing. And as she realized there was more to life than playing kpankpangolo with someone that is definitely not her soul mate, she bounced. Now the uncle is hating because she married better man and wants to scatter someone's life.  Sigh! This one pass petty.

To the question, if I were the man, it could be difficult to deal with having to see my wife in such a compromising position; and then to add petrol to fire, not just me but the public, my mama and papa plus my children have seen it. It will pain me oh no lie. I could even be tempted to just send her packing. But on second thoughts, I would calm her down because I know she would definitely be worried sick and panicking and reassure her it will pass. Shoo, after all Kim K became rich and popular courtesy of sex tape. As the husband I'd cook up some story to protect my wife's pride and dignity where the kids and other folks are concerned and just be the strong support she needs.

Me as the wife, first port of call is the bathroom to cry very well (even though crying won't solve anything for me, except maybe gather more sympathy from my husband). After that I'd go talk with hubby and explain (if he didn't already know) who that son of lucifer is and why he did what he did. I'd apologize and beg for forgiveness for my stupidity in the past and the embarrassment caused my family. After my husband don gree begin to back me, as he's by my side, I would stand like kpako super sack and confront that bag of amu and tell him his plans have failed. He can like to do his worst..I don't see it getting any worse than that. Like really rub it in his face that he is less than a man and would never find the type of happiness you have. LOL

See me I'm just talking as if I were married and saw a sex tape of my husband I will not blow off the roof and bring hell on earth. All this things...it's easier said than done. But I always like to believe in fairytales and the type of love we see in the movies.. MTSCHEW!

The tori today no long abi? Oya talk your own. What would you do? Will you kill somebody?(some of you are crazy like that). Talk with Krystal my people :) and enjoy your Saturday too.

P.S: We should be careful the things we do while trying to have fun because we think we're young. We should as much as possible never let what we do today turn around and come get in the way of our future. He who knows how to pound should pound in the mortar, if you can't pound, pound in the ground.... (I BE SOUNDING LIKE PETE EDOCHIE! Lmao)

10 comments:

  1. I think u ve already spoken my mind in the second paragraph of dis post. Whatever my wife must ve done in the past belongs to the past, it could be painful thou but it happened in the past not when we r together.

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    1. Gbam!See as God don give you sense wella! Lol. #Realtalk darl. Thank you

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  2. Well as a woman in that positions, all you can do is pray your husband nd kids stand by you. Because that is all you need. Every other person cn think nd say what ever they want

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    1. Right? All that matters is your family. You talk true!!

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  3. Haha... the crawsi sex tape talks. What wuld I do???. Laff abt it or pretend to be thrilled...
    Moreover, the sex tape is of d past and nit when we were together. Therefore no big deal... Would just store it in my porn stars collection and sip tea... there many oda things to be worried about... wat is sex tape sef?, highest I would boost her moral if it tends to bring her low.

    Come to think of it everyone has a sex tape, even krystal.... *smiles* **running**

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    1. Holy Moses! Bros u say wahhh?? Na u make the tape for me? Lwkmdh

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  4. Like Amanda said, all you need is your family with you and you're good.
    I'm sure I'll be supportive, the person in the video wouldn't be the same person I married, but sometimes I go laff am well well in private "kai! see when you used to be hot and fresh". If we have daughters I go happy sef as it will serve as a valuable lesson for them.

    @Krystal I can help with 'modeling' if you want to make your own tape.

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  5. Like Amanda said, all you need is your family with you and you're good.
    I'm sure I'll be supportive, the person in the video wouldn't be the same person I married, but sometimes I go laff am well well in private "kai! see when you used to be hot and fresh". If we have daughters I go happy sef as it will serve as a valuable lesson for them.

    @Krystal I can help with 'modeling' if you want to make your own tape.

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    1. Lwkmdh. Oga Ben thanks but no thanks sir

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