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HOE ALERT??



Today I'd be real quick and direct to the point. Question: What would be your first reaction or what would be the first thought to come to mind when you see a CONDOM in a lady's purse or wardrobe?

Without much-a-do, I won't even lie. On a normal day, like when I was not very enlightened, even a guy having one on him would make think he humps everything in skirt. Not to talk of girl keeping one. I'd have labeled her as a promiscuous hoeliranu without thinking twice.

But now I'm much grown and I know better. I mean with all the sex education training I had as a student pharmacist, I rather see a female keeping one as her being responsible. Most young adults are sexual beings; so why take the risk of contracting venereal diseases or getting pregnant if by chance she has someone over and probably the dude doesn't have one with him. To me, every single person should take responsibility in protecting themselves. It's your right to do so. If you're the type not to abstain, whether it's a committed relationship or not, you should have a choice as to having protected sexual intercourse. So a lady doesn't have to be a prostitute or a slut before she keeps a condom with her. Heck my sexology lecturer gave all of us condoms in class including the pastors and reverend sister sef that were there.

Well, that's that. I told y'all this would be a quick one (why did I read that wrongly..LOL) .Your turn now. Be 100% real with Krystal ;)

11 comments:

  1. Anonymous3/3/16 11:49

    Responsible? Far from it jare! A guy should have it! She can just tell him to go and get one! No matter how you think about it, in a society like ours, such a lady would be labelled a 'hoe'! She should just tell the guy to be ready always by having many at home! My one Naira opinion!

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  2. He won't always have one even if he is inclined to using it, which not all of us are.
    You just might been in a situation where the mood hits suddenly he doesn't have one.

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    1. In other words, you don't see anything wrong with it yh?

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    2. No I don't see anything wrong.
      I don't think it's wise for a woman to leave all the initiative with the guy. Even the most well meaning guys can slip up when 'oga at the bottom' wants what it wants and he doesn't have a condom, that's where the lady having one comes in handy.

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    3. Well said dear. Thanks fot keeping it totally real!! You just laid it al on the table

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    4. No I don't see anything wrong.
      I don't think it's wise for a woman to leave all the initiative with the guy. Even the most well meaning guys can slip up when 'oga at the bottom' wants what it wants and he doesn't have a condom, that's where the lady having one comes in handy.

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  3. Dozie A.3/3/16 14:58

    I see nothing wrong in it. Why do people see nothing wrong in it when it's a guy, but then see it as an abomination when it's done by a lady??

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  4. Hahaha... women dat keep condoms. 99% of those women are nymphomaniac, had some female condom keepers bk den. There mind is always dirty. So women with condoms is directly proportional to nymphos.

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    1. Ha! It's wa oh! Nympho gini? I dunno the women u v b hanging around with sha

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