What's up lovers...Thank God it's Thursday, the last day of the month of March *HALLELUJAH*. Today we'd attempt to answer some queries that have been in the mail
concerning the determining factor for a woman's loyalty/submissiveness to a man.
Plenty people have been asking and urging me to speak on this particular topic; most of them being guys. So let's talk...what makes a woman loyal to the core? I know the "love struck" people would say it's LOVE....but let's shift our attention a bit to other things that would likely make a lady cling tirelessly to a dude.
I did a survey asking both sexes which of these two, Sex or Money, would cause a lady to remain grounded and think she's hopelessly in love and do almost anything for her man... LOL...you can guess how the results turned out. 75% of guys I asked said MONEY is the main thing. That no matter how much one may think they're in love, once there's no money in sight, the so called feeling of affection begins to disappear gradually. A few said "Once the D is good, she'd never let go"*LMAO*. The female folks though...most could not decide, claiming both were important factors and could not do without the other. 40% however said that for them, sex does it all as they feel deeply connected to their partners.
Hmmm....I won't lie sha...I actually agree partly with the group that said both were important. In marriages the two most common causes for arguments are sex and money. In many ways a relationship can't really work without both of them being in play.
But I agree more with Sex being the major loyalty agonist. Now for women, once they're intimate with someone, the love hormone oxytocin is secreted...this hormone is responsible for the maintenance of that relationship. It makes the lady involved feel so bonded physically, emotionally and spiritually; and hopelessly in love that she would be willing to climb mountains and swim across oceans for that guy. This is the reason most people that began their relationships with sex feel like they're in love. Once the love making stops, it's like their eyes are opened to a whole other reality like when Adam and Eve ate the forbidden fruit and realized they were naked. Now not all sex is sex...if you know what I mean. If the sex is no good, don't expect her to be bonded abi loyal because you think oxytocin was released. If you want to be sure that your girl is now like a loyal puppy; when y'all are done with your bedroom shenanigans, if ya the only one feeling very grateful, OYO is your case. In fact be rest assured that whatever she asks you to do you must do it and even more. Only God knows how He made females...LOL....the way we're wired up though.....Bottom line is good sex makes a girl grounded and starts bringing out the jealous and clingy parts of her. Great sex that leaves her begging and asking for more can make her addicted to you like someone addicted to coke and weed.
After Sex comes Money....if all you can put on the table is your "third leg" and sweet nothings or profess undying love without spending moderately on her, again don't count on her being 100% loyal to you. After all Yemi Alade sang "If you love me you go buy me Ferrari, If you love me you go pay me salary" *picks race*
So if y'all in love and you want bae's total submissiveness...like those guys said, let her have it really good *wink* and well spend just enough on her. Still not advisable to start off your relationship sexually else that will be all what you both would be about. Love making is just an added advantage that brings the two parties involved even closer, you get? In fact y'all know already it's for married people jor so chill *dodges garri ball*
HEHE... what's on your mind about this? SEX OR MONEY?? Talk with Krystal ;)