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SO YOU DOUBT YOUR SEXUALITY (WONDERING IF YOU'RE STRAIGHT OR GAY)


Thank God it's Friday.....and I go rock am like my baiday...yayyy. LOL hiya my sweet amiable readers....it's like the love I have for y'all keeps increasing by the day. I really appreciate all the messages that come in via facebook, email, instagram and other social media platforms. Y'all are amazing in ways you don't even know.

I'd try my best not to step on any toes in today's matter on ground, but heck I can't stop being real...I gats to speak my mind and then you guys would give your two cents on it.

So a lady said she had an issue with her sexuality; that she was confused if she was heterosexual, homosexual or bisexual and she doesn't know if she's normal or it's just a phase. After giving her case a lot of thought, I came to some conclusions and again this is just my opinion.

I've heard a lot of times that people tend to have a bit of "lesbian/gay tendencies" in them. I'm not sure how true that assumption is, but I believe if at all it is, it's only due to the way the world has proven how very okay it is to go against the laws of nature. I'd give you an example.

While growing up we enjoyed all them childhood fairy tales from snow white to red hiding hood to a host of many others. Now that was when the world was still a bit sane and they weren't trying to totally rob us of our innocence then...like the stories didn't take any new dimensions, it's always the prince and the princess ending up together or two love birds (male and female) living happily ever after. I was seeing one of my favorite series the other day (Once Upon A Time to be specific) and I didn't foresee a particular plot twist. Usually all the fable characters are linked in one way or the other....but this one really ticked me off. I don't know why but the story line ended in the fact that Red hiding hood and Dorothy from the Oz story were lovers. And I'm like what are these people trying to really do? It's like almost everything we see or watch these days must celebrate homosexuality in all its glory. You and I can agree that no home movie or TV series is ever complete without the tale of two guys or two girls supposedly in love and stuffs like that. That's how far they've gotten. It seems like they just want the whole word hypnotized into being gay.

Now I have no judgment against what sexuality you practice...we all sin a little everyday....we believe in what we believe in. But trying to ensure every other person commits your sin or forcing your belief in very silent but alarming ways is a no-no! The result of all these things from the endorsement of gayness/homosexuality in more than 50% of the world to portraying it a lot on home videos and even movies for the kids is this woman's case above. People start doubting what's true and what's not. They begin to reason like "Oh may be it's actually normal, there's no biggie, God made us like that". No darlings if he did, most of us won't be born. I doubt other animals love and mate with the same sex. Procreation/reproduction was made to happen via fertilization of the female gametes by those of the male species. But due to modern age science and technology, the fact that there are other ways to make a child by cooking in a petri dish or using surrogates or adoption agencies that give children to gay couples have just given such people the liberty to do as they will. Trust me if there was no other way to make babies other than the way it's being designed from the onset, then a lot of people would hardly ever consider the thought of being gay. The worse part is the fact that the Church (some, not all) has now wavered its beliefs and are very supportive of gay marriages. That's one of the reason I love the Islam religion...they totally won't tolerate it and won't conform to something simply because almost everyone approves.

I'm not in any way supporting discrimination against homosexuals...they should be treated like every other person and not bullied, but I'd rather people are not influenced every second into being gay.
So dear lady doubting her sexuality, you are female. You were made female naturally. You are not a man that you should mate with another female. If you're still doubting check between your thighs and you'd see what I mean. Even if you go do some surgery to become what you're not like Oga/Madam Caitlyn that said he/she felt trapped in her former body, deep down you know who you are. Weed out the thoughts from your head. If need be, kiss everything you read or watch that could play tricks on your mind about your sexuality goodbye. If you're Christian, check out the story of creation....God made Adam (man), took his rib and made Eve (woman) and later on they mated and had Cain and Abel (children). If you don't believe in God, you might probably like to watch discovery channel or national geographic wild and look at how animals that have lesser brains than us humans actually procreate even without no one telling them how it's done. If you're muslim, you know what to do. In fact whatever faith you practice you already know what's right and what's wrong. However na your choice. I can only give my opinion.

I'm done talking. This post is not intended to offend anyone, but then again if you're hurt, it's only because it's the truth. Stay Blessed and have a beautifully turnt Friday....but don't forget to Talk With Krystal in the comment section. Kisses :*

16 comments:

  1. Artificial insemination nko... lol.

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    1. I believe we know that..but don't you think you're focusing on the wrong thing??

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  2. Actually two gay lions have been spotted mating in the wild ., I don't believe you can be brainwashed into being something you're not, I only think you can be close minded coz no matter how much I see gay people on TV, I won't be gay..

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    1. Gay Lions are your justification for your sexual deviation? The older generations are not the real targets of this gay propaganda... it's the youngster the ones under 17 or so.
      I do not believe she's discriminating, she's stating the obvious... being reproduction, and the the manner in which gay scenes pop up in the media... the frequency is a lot i must say.
      The world has been aware of your kinds existence and didn't think much of it, but going mainstream with such an act which is usually associated with exploratory juveniles in adulthood is abnormal if i must say sir.

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  3. Also you can't say you're not discriminating and yet be encouraging people to discriminate coz that's what your article is doing.

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    1. Oh wow dat's interesting(pertaining to the two male lions tori)..definitely gat to check it out. Thanks for your contribution. If this post in any way encouraged discrimination,I indeed apologize. I've never been an ambassador for that, but I've never been one to also not say how I see things, whatever it is. The reason it's tagged "Real Talk". I'm just saying that in my opinion and from how I've been brought up, sexual r/ships exist between a man and a woman and as such I won't be the one to tell someone else the opposite. And trust me you can indeed be influenced to do things or be someone or something you're not. It happens..almost everything around us influences our actions. That's just how it is. Thanks again tho hun and I'm so running to find those two lions..lol

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  4. Another ignorant and homophobic piece. This whole piece reads like a white person's "I'm not racist but..". Counter to your assertion, a quick Google search will pop up a list of animals that engage in homosexual sex. Homosexuality has existed since the beginning of time. The only reason you're seeing it on the Tv now is because unlike you, people are educating themselves on the topic and becoming less bigoted. Do you know how many things are condemned in the bible you speak of? Isn't premarital sex a sin? Yet you blog about it and probably indulge in it like its not.... And why assume that everybody that everybody that has sex does so to procreate? What if I just wanna have sex? What if I don't want my own babies? What if I wanna adopt? Oh and according to your logic, since I enjoy watching animals on National Geographic and do so almost all the time, one day I might wanna become an animal too. Stupid. The concept of consensual sex seems lost on us in this part of the world. Why are we trying to police how people have consensual sex? Isn't that personal? Should that be anybody's business?

    P.s. Before any bigoted person calls me gay (which is the default retort for Nigerians when you defend homosexuality), I'd like to state that I am not gay. I'm a straight man with both struggle and gay friends that is tired of seeing how may gay friends live in shame and fear in their own kand because who they have consensual (emphasis on consensual) sex with.

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    1. Dear Micheal, I never insulted anyone and I expect you to respect me as well. I only stated my opinion. Strongly pointed that out. If according to you being homosexual is ok,fine. To me it's not. I also didn't say sex was just for reproduction. I only used it to point something out. I'm no saint. No one is. The reason I said we all sin a little, but I've never told anyone to go commit a particular sin. Whatever you do with your life is up to you like I rightly stated. My opinion!! whether it's true or not,whether you choose to accept it or not,not my business. Have a really good day.

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    2. Micheal, i must sincerely apologize and sympathize with you and your friends for your confused sexual state, but why making it seem like she said something ill against your kind.. LGBT and Confused people..
      What i understood from the post is don't force us to see it as a norm.

      This part of the world? i would have u know this part still has some integrity left. Keep supporting same sex. that's what's stupid. If your mum were gay you wont be here... food for thought.

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    3. FYI Michael : saying that homosexuality existed since the beginning of time is very blasphemous cos its like saying God created Adam and Michael, oh sorry Adam and Eve...i dont know your religion but one thing common to all religions across the world is that God created man and woman to procreate their own kind. So if you wantu just have sex for fun and never procreate just think for a moment that if the whole world thought like you, you my dear won't be in existence(which may be a good thing) . And even if this is a homophobic piece ( which it is not ) IS IT YOUR HOMOPHOBIC?! Why so pained?

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  5. I love kyrstal for her authenticity....On this matter, I'll drop my comments as usual...I have never been a fan of the homos, I basically call them explorers,because they go against the laws of nature and creation. If they weren't going against it,it would not propel such turmoil in the society. In creation and evolution, we only have male and female. So for those who believe in it....kosi wahala,I believe sex should be fun,if you happy playing with your look alike..but don't influence me to be what you are...and lady questioning her sexuality,please you are female, in between your legs you can really really tell.
    Lastly people should learn to air their opinions maturely, there's no need swearing because you wanna air your views. State your point,and if you wanna further stress it,just give proofs as to why u believe in it.
    Much love kyrstal..keep keeping it real.

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  6. I love kyrstal for her authenticity....On this matter, I'll drop my comments as usual...I have never been a fan of the homos, I basically call them explorers,because they go against the laws of nature and creation. If they weren't going against it,it would not propel such turmoil in the society. In creation and evolution, we only have male and female. So for those who believe in it....kosi wahala,I believe sex should be fun,if you happy playing with your look alike..but don't influence me to be what you are...and lady questioning her sexuality,please you are female, in between your legs you can really really tell.
    Lastly people should learn to air their opinions maturely, there's no need swearing because you wanna air your views. State your point,and if you wanna further stress it,just give proofs as to why u believe in it.
    Much love kyrstal..keep keeping it real.

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  7. Well said! That episode of once upon a time is my last and i mean it. Cos these people are using the theory of constant exposure via the media to silently manipulate the world...it gradually starts with 'oh no! God forbid' to 'well, its not that bad' to 'let me even try it and see what these people are talking about' to ' oh! Its so amazing! I was born for this' next thing ' don't judge me, God made me like this'. The more exposed one is to something, the more tolerative one gets towards it. A friend of mine said that in the next 25yrs gay marriage will be legalized in Africa and most countries in the world except maybe the core islam countries but still nah these alhaji's they do secret gay parolz pass sef. So my dear, i see this gay issue as an OYO case. Let everybody do as it suits them one day one day monkey go go market e no go return.

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  8. Your lady friend looking between her legs only confirms her gender. As for her sexuality, I believe only she can truly tell.
    As you rightly stated, people can be influenced towards certain beliefs or actions and that has been our case over the last few hundred years. If you look through history, there are numerous cases of homosexuality among humans and animals that indulge sex as recreation.
    The issue propels such turmoil because we lack any reasonable understanding and are afraid to ask questions or simply mind our own business.

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  9. Being gay to me is absolutely wrong! It doesn't ve to be a sin. I think its a psychology problem. When u look at a gay relationship, one of them will still be acting as an opposite sex, for example, in a man dating another man, one will still be acting like a woman, so if as a man, u are sexually attracted to another man dat acts like a woman, why not dating a woman then? I ve seen someone dat overcome dis problem by visiting a psychologist.

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  10. Le Bestie22/4/16 23:04

    On a less serious note....does it count as homosexuality if it's a threesome and there's two girls and a guy involved? Or two guys and a girl?����

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