FOR BRAVE WOMEN: 8 LESSONS ON BEING LOVED AND TREATED RIGHT
Over time, I've learned the importance of not settling for anything short of what one deserves, especially when it comes to matters of the heart. You would agree with me that most females have forgotten their worth and have conformed to being misused or abused in their relationships, probably for fear of being alone or never finding anyone better. I should know though after all I've been down that dark path. The earlier you realize that there's much more to you and that there are people willing to worship the floor you walk on and even bleed just to have you by their sides, the better.
So ladies, get in here because you need to know how awesome you are, enough not to waste your time on someone that's clearly out to do just that (waste your time I mean). You have to know when you should chuck those two fingers up, put em really high in his face and in Beyoncé's voice say out loud "Boy Bye"!!
Alright, so basically this post tells you very essential points you need to keep in mind always.
LESSON 1Stop chasing him. If he wants you, he will chase you!!!! If a man wants you, he'd surely come get you.
LESSON 2If he misses you, he'll call. If he wants you, he'll say it. If he cares, he'll show it. And if not, well he definitely can't be worth your time.
LESSON 3Real men never stop trying to show a girl how much she means to him, even after he's got her.
LESSON 4Don't go begging a man for things you know you deserve. The right man will give you everything you deserve and everything you never knew about.
LESSON 5If your absence doesn't affect him, your presence never mattered. This is a very vital lesson. The earlier you realize he probably never wanted you around, the better.
LESSON 6Loving someone who doesn't love you back is just like hugging a cactus plant. The tighter you hold on to it, the more it hurts. So know when to let go.
LESSON 7A man that knows of your sadness and sleeps doesn't deserve your love at all. He doesn't care the least bit about you.
LESSON 8There's no sense in fighting for someone who doesn't want you to fight for them. As such my darling, save your energy for battles worth the stress. you're gon' need it.
Okay...I know what it feels like to be in a relationship that hurts you so much it slowly snuffs life outta you. The reason you'd be doing yourself a favor by getting out fast and getting it right. I've talked with a few lot hurting badly. If you're one of them, you should understand that you're hurting because you're being attached to someone who's being distant towards you. You're paying attention to someone who ignores you, making time for someone who's too busy for you. You're too caring to someone who seems careless towards you. And you keep waiting on someone who keeps stalling you. You need to wake up and smell the coffee hun. It's time to stop letting him waste your damn time!
Hope this helped someone and do share with someone who might need some reality check.
I'd say have a really good day, but if you're reading this and you're going through some shii, I'd advise you to simply try and have a day. Stay alive and strong. Eat good food. Don't starve yourself or fill the emptiness you feel with junk food. Dress comfortably and please don't give up on yourself yet. A strong woman doesn't give up even though her heart may feel heavy. She bravely and courageously takes one more step, pushes through and becomes a conqueror ( Yes you'd conquer love boo).
Take care lovers and do rub minds with me in the comment section. Until next time, Talk With Krystal ;)
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