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18 DON'Ts IN A RELATIONSHIP

An all too familiar topic right? But then again, some of us need a little reminder to save us from unnecessary brouhaha where our relationships are concerned. Now the points I'd be highlighting are very common mistakes even myself I'm guilty of making; so pay attention in class today


1) Don't wait. Express your love now: I've somehow talked about this in some previous posts. Many times we get scared of confessing or showing our true feelings because of one reason or the other. Well you better love up now before it's too late. Love hard but don't be stupid (you know what I mean)

2) Don't worry, stay happy: More often than not we worry over nothing in our relationships...panic for no just cause...fear of the unknown. When you worry, it eats deep into the connection you and your partner have. Try as much as you can to be happy and make your significant other happy as well. Very important!

3) Don't gloat when you are right: Most of us do this ehhhnn....and it …

The Real Life Nobody Told You About

As kids, we all looked forward to growing up to become adults that did adult things and no one controlled us, but the flip side is; NO ONE told us adulthood would come with a lot of baggage and responsibilities, so much that one would wish time could rewind back to the days when we were kids.
And for some reason, all the schooling, university, and chats with our parents failed to mention a few pretty major parts of what life really entails. Now, no one prepared us, and we don’t feel ready. We don’t know how to adult. Help us, please
Some of these we have already met, while the others are still on the way, either way, we need help !

First and foremost, money management in general. If you were lucky, your parents imparted some financial wisdom upon you before you headed off into the big bad world, but for the rest of us, our education consisted of arts and science and building this or treating that, even studying banking & finance or accounting doesn't prepare you enough for t…

MOTHER'S DAY SPECIAL - Happy Mother's Day

Yayyy! It's mother's day again and we couldn't be more thankful for the God's special gift to mankind....our mothers. Mothers are pillars and the backbone of the family; the sacrifices made and the tireless nights they fast, cry and pray for the wellbeing of not just their children and husbands, but for every single soul around them....they deserve more than a day to be celebrated.


In a beautiful special way, we're sending out love to all mothers in Nigeria and beyond, but most especially to those of KT family. So let's kick off the celebration shall we?


Nneoma! Egovin! Nwaribeaku! Lolo Nwachi. You mum are the G.O.A.T (greatest of all time)..the realest MVP. We can't imagine life without you, God couldn't have blessed us with a better person to take on the role of being our mother. You have tirelessly being our cheerleader, our supporter, our prayer warrior and best friend. Your hugs, your kisses, your smiles, your tears, your massages, your jokes, your s…

DEAR FINE GUYS.......

Dear cute, fine, ridiculously handsome guys...

You're breathtaking....indeed a breath of fresh air. Girls will always fawn over you and stare the whole day at you day dreaming of the possible beautiful babies that they could have with you. They will have fast heart beats and pee hot piss when you simply smile at them or reply a text. They are possibly having high blood pressure every now and then whether or not there is another girl trying to get your attention.

By now you probably know this already. In fact I'm sure you're up to speed on how mindblowingly good-looking, strikingly attractive, elegant and drop dead gorgeous you are and the type of confusion and sleepless nights you're giving us. You know some ladies would let themselves go and worship the floor you walk on...they'd do anything as long as you command it; including kill for you.

Nevertheless, for the rest of us who can still manage to be sane while fantasizing about you, on behalf of this particular …

STRAFF AT FIRST SIGHT

I know I know, some title that is.. LOL. Funny but this is honestly the mentality I have had to deal with in the past couple of weeks. So here's what happened......


There's this fine a** cute being like that I got to know yea, I swear I got attracted (who no like better thing);..On a good day, I paid him a compliment and we talked good. We agreed to chill some time later in the week. I opted for movies and all, but uncle said he'd prefer his house. Of course I refused. On the D-day, after work hours, he told me the spot to meet up with him yea; some plaza like that. I got there, lo and behold, his house was just there..in my mind I was like "Krys you don fuck up". I boned up and just got in, laughed over it and just let it slide. One good thing about this person, he was pretty much free...Now I had hoped to just talk and get to know a brother better, be good friends at least. However, he had other plans in mind. Before I could say Jack, he already had a hard on a…

TORN (Fate or Fight)

I've been gone for too long haven't I? I've had people question me a lot about Real Talk and when I'd resume real blogging (not the amebo gist I do on instagram)...lol. Somehow I just stopped writing...maybe I needed some reminder of why I started this in the first place...and boooyyyy have those reminders been pouring in day in day out. To all of you that were really concerned and pushed me to come back, I really do appreciate your words of encouragement....I didn't think people really paid attention, even on twitter and those I talked to in person. Thank you a lot.

So I'm going to begin this journey of re-discovering myself and I get to do it with you. I'd be using real-time-real-life experiences and hopefully we get to find some sanity in our insanity. So allow me to reintroduce my self again. I'm Krystal and I'm very delighted to bring you Real Talk.

For today, we'd be gisting bout something that bothers most if not all of us. BEING CONSTANT…