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Loud Thoughts - Bestie Of The Opposite Sex

They say date your bestfriend..marry your bestfriend...your husband/wife should be your bestfriend. When your partner has a "bestie" of the opposite sex, maybe you shouldn't be there....

What's the point being in a relationship with someone who'd go to "B" first before coming to you they're supposedly meant to be with and then you get to feel like the 2nd option? Why be with someone who constantly puts it in your face that someone else is more important than you?

I had a very very close male friend back in school. He was also friends with my boo then. It always felt like his (my close friend) name popped up in every conversation, outing, decision, etc. It didn't take long boo began to feel hurt, inadequate and disrespected. In my head I felt it was nothing but I was making someone I claimed to be the most important person then feel less than he was to me. To him it was like "so why am I with you? Why lie to him about where you are or that …


Someone once said "The strength of a mother
is second to none. Even when she is in times of stress, when she is fighting her own demons, when she is beyond exhausted both mentally and physically; nothing will stop her from finding the strength she needs to get done"

This post is dedicated to all mothers; those still with us, those who have departed, those who have stepped in to fill the gaps.....The love and sacrifices you have made for your children are never taken for granted, but beyond words appreciated. We can only ask the Almighty to keep mums still on earth with us much longer and bless them with good health of mind, body and soul; as He continues to shine his perpetual light on the souls of those gone to answer His call. MOTHERS ARE EXTRAORDINARY SUPER HEROES!!

Explaining your wonderful existence in our lives is like trying to explain God's greatness. You are a rare gem An influence to everyone around you The most beautiful woman in the world(inside and out) Sin…


Yoohooo wataguan sweethearts? How you holding up? It is with great amusement that I bring to you this session of Real Talk. I had wanted to make a video for this one, but mischief won’t let a sister be great. Without much-a-do, let’s get right into it.
The other day I came across a tweet a girl posted and I quote “If only people knew that a man’s G-spot is in his anus, even men don’t know this or want to believe this, because they think it’s gay, but it’s 100% true”. The way I went “ewwwww”… was something I could not imagine. So I proceeded to share my latest discovery with some of my friends and colleagues. Guys wan mad LMAO. “Gay shii”, “Nasty!”, “God forbid”, they said. I remember a colleague at work said “The day his girl’s hands mistakenly try to hover around that area he’d probably break up with her”.
Hehe! Let me officially break it to you now that it is 101% TRUE (trust me I was just as shocked). I’d give you the gists I heard from guys then the main information. A frien…